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June  •  Day 9

Be the Friend You Need

Day 160 of 365  •  FRIENDS

A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Proverbs 18:24 (ESV)

Proverb Truth

I’ve heard many men say they wish they had better friends. But years ago, someone challenged me with a question that changed my perspective. “What kind of friend are you becoming?”

Do I listen? Do I encourage? Do I show up? Do I pray for people? Am I trustworthy?

Because brotherhood isn’t built by demanding loyalty. It’s built by demonstrating it.

Jesus in Action

Jesus loved first. Served first. Forgave first. And because He did, others experienced the kind of friendship their hearts longed for.

Forged Wisdom

Epictetus wrote: “First learn the meaning of what you say, and then speak.” Authentic friendships are built by authentic people.

The No Limits Challenge

Ask yourself: “Am I becoming the kind of friend I hope to have?”

Prayer

Father, help me become a faithful, trustworthy, and encouraging friend. Teach me to love others with the same grace You’ve shown me. Amen.

Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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